Love Lust And Laughter - How is your sexual relationship going to improve in this new year? Dr. Lori Buckley
Love, Lust, and Laughter
How is your sexual relationship going to improve in this new year? Dr. Lori Buckley – www.DrLoriBuckley.com – is the guest and author of “21 Decisions for Great Sex & A Happy Relationship.” This is a book that offers simple steps to improve your relationship so that it is more satisfying and healthy. As Dr. Lori promises, “There are not many experiences in life as great as mind-blowing sex with someone you love!!!” And she points out that there is a difference between resolutions and decisions. Listen in and hear the fascinating differences – and/or get her book! We also spoke about negative body image – since weight loss resolutions are so common at this time of year. The only way we are able to enjoy sex is to focus on the pleasure. If you’re distracted by worry that your partner won’t find you attractive, you won’t be a responsive partner. Not promising for the relationship!
Do you want to know some behind the scenes secrets of sex therapists? Listen to this show because Dr. Lori Buckley (www.DrLoriBuckley.com) and your host Dr. Diana Wiley (www.DrDianaWiley.com) – two seasoned sex therapists – shared in a lively, informative conversation! First we talked about our backgrounds and how we decided on the specialty of sex therapy. Then we discussed why we love our work so much. We’ve both seen thousands of people – helping them learn what it possible. It is deeply satisfying work and it was fun to share success stories. A good sex therapist will teach the clients to communicate with each other and find solutions as they go along. Often old anger and resentments will dissipate. Sometimes we have to do psychotherapy before we can do sex therapy. Homework/homeplay assignments are exercises that typically include talking, touching and setting up erotic scenarios. A therapist alternates between playing sex detective and sex coach. First, we ask a lot of questions to try to understand the problem, then give suggestions or ideas to try during lovemaking at home. We need to overcome barriers because some people are afraid of exposing themselves, whether physically or emotionally. We also often need to help our clients shake off shame. Some fear that their mates wouldn’t love or respect them if they knew their deepest sexual secrets – unusual turn-ons, colorful histories, long-ago rape or abuse. Partners learn that their secrets no longer control them. When therapy works, when clients begin to relax, to laugh, to have fun – it’s like watching a flower opening!
#2: More Orgasms, How To Explore Sexual Fantasies & Why "Asking" For Sex Is A Bad Idea With Dr. Lori Buckley
The Bad Girls Bible - Sex, Relationships, Dating, Love & Marriage Advice
Sex Therapist Dr. Lori Buckley is my guest on the podcast today. We talk about everything from how to more easily reach orgasm during sex to getting over sexual shame and exploring new fantasies and ideas in the bedroom. You'll also learn why a "judgy" attitude in the bedroom is a bad idea and why "asking" for sex is even worse. Show Highlights 1.35 Lori's background and how she became a sex therapist. 5.10 We discuss why some women struggle to reach orgasm during sex. 9.20 Why getting "out of your head" is vital for reaching orgasm more easily. 11.40 A simple technique to help you orgasm during sex. 15.30 Tips for getting over sexual shame and exploring new fantasies and ideas. 20.00 Simple steps for sharing your sexual fantasies and fetishes with your man. 23.10 Why a "judgy" attitude is going to kill your sex life. 28.30 An easy trick for getting in the mood, IF you are in a long term relationship. 29.15 Why asking for sex is a BAD idea. 35.30 Why women sometimes need their man to be more assertive. 36.20 Why many gifts don't need to cost a cent but still have a massive impact. 37.00 We talk about the deep importance of sexual tension in your relationship. You can learn more about Dr. Lori Buckley at https://www.drloribuckley.com/ and listen to her podcast here on iTunes (https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/looking-for-love/id1146640020).
Dr. Lori Buckley - Sex in the News - the good and the not so good
Sex Talk with Lou
Chicken or the Egg??? Is your sex life damaging your relationship or is your relationship hurting your sex life? Pasadena based Dr. Lori Buckley (www.drloribuckley.com)and I will look at the two main sources of sex and intimacy issues. What we see are the best ways for an individual or a couple to untangle their issues and have the love life and sex life they want and deserve. We both know that when people hear what others are dealing with it invariably validates, reduces their shame or stress about that issue and has them then see how others are put in the power position to create solutions that work for them as individuals.
Lou and Lori discuss her toughest sex therapy clients and how her work as an AASECT sex therapist has evolved into seminars and workshops to support people finding and communicating the love and passion they want. Lori describes her work with instructional sex therapy films she has been a consultant for. Lori loves to work with couples and finds tremendous satisfaction in knowing she's helped them heal and grow. drloribuckley.com