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Jonathon Aslay: Better Dating Through Cultivating Self-Love And Healing Childhood Trauma

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Get ready for a fast-moving show that will offer you a brand-new perspective on dating, self-worth, and self-love. In this episode, Jonathon Aslay reveals why dating itself can trigger our deepest fears, shares the 4 Pillars of A Successful Relationship, and breaks down the ways in which we can transcend the flawed modern dating scene to have deeper, more meaningful, more successful dates and long-term romantic partnerships. And it starts with the common denominator in all of your failed relationships: you! 

That’s right, dating success starts with cultivating self-love and healing childhood trauma. Jonathon is the author of What The Heck Is Self-Love Anyway, a book about healing from grief and childhood trauma to cultivate self-love. Jonathon leverages his message to the unique challenges of the modern dating scene. He is a dating coach specializing in mid-life and purposeful dating ― helping clients transcend the usual obsession with chemistry to become more self-aware and understand what Jonathon calls the 4 Pillars of successful relationships: Chemistry, Common Values, Blendable Lifestyles, and Emotional Maturity. Jonathon is the real deal, having overcome an assortment of personal setbacks to rebuild his life and gift his message to others. After losing his 19-year-old son Connor in 2018, Jonathon was forced to acknowledge what he’s suspected all along: that dating strategies are often too one-dimensional to have a meaningful impact. Instead, it’s the act of dating itself that brings out what he feels is the number one emotional health issue facing singles today: a soul-deep lack of self-worth and self-love. 

Today, Jonathon is on a mission to encourage both men and women to adopt a daily practice of self-help, personal development, and spirituality, so that they may find true inner happiness, purpose, and peace. With these practices, individuals will attract the relationship of their dreams — and Jonathon is here to help along the way.

Enjoy listening to this fun, informative (and quite useful!) show with Jonathon, and if you want to connect with him or learn more about his work, check out his website here.


Jonathan Aslay is a dating coach and expert specializing in midlife and purposeful dating. [01:38]

Jonathan’s four pillars for successful dating are chemistry, shared values, a blendable lifestyle, and emotional maturity. [03:00]

In the dating realm, old memories of “I’m not good enough” or “I’m not lovable” come up. [05:15]

After using the dating profile system, Jonathan realized that he was good at interpreting both men’s and women’s profiles and that’s how his business came about. [07:35]

The greater issue in dating is not just biology and attraction, it is more a healing of our childhood wounds and traumas. [08:44]

Emotional maturity is one of the key pillars of a relationship. If people don’t take responsibility for their choices, they are not emotionally mature. [11:12]

The physical connection is nice but to sustain a long-term relationship, you need blendable lifestyles. [16:33]

Romance should be reserved for relationships and not just for dating. [18:13]

More women than men ask for help from this dating coach. [21:22]

In modern times, the way people meet and get together is so different from the past. [23:15]

It took Jonathan over 100 failed dates to realize the common denominator in them all was Jonathan himself. [27:23]

Self-love means self-worth, self-confidence, self-esteem, self-reliance, self-respect. [23:45]

Can we assume that most everyone has some wounds from their childhood upbringing and are lingering? [30:54]

We can either look inward or look to blame the outside world. [31:58]

Sadly, people are dating myopically….just thinking about what am I getting here? rather than respecting the other’s feelings. [41:18]

Ask value-based questions on that first date. [46:38]

It is important to be honest and straightforward in communicating how you see the relationship. Are you looking for a partner? Are you just having fun? Benefits? [52:40]

It’s not necessarily rejection. It is a misalignment. It is an awareness. [54:09]

Biology makes up a small percentage of the other person’s personality. [56:15]

Meeting up with a stranger is a challenge, these days. [01:04:41]


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Nov 24 2020 · 1hr 2mins
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163 | The 5 Signs of an Emotional Grown Up w/ Jonathon Aslay | October 6, 2020

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Jonathon is America's leading mid-life dating coach helping women understand men and expand into a deeper, essential philosophy of what it truly means to LOVE.

Today, he is on a mission of encouraging both men and women to fully love themselves with a new book, "What The Heck Is Self-Love Anyway?"—packed with fun, engaging spiritual and personal growth practices—and his dynamic Mid-Life Love Mastery mentorship program, that inspires hundreds of people daily, around the world.

He has been a featured expert on ABC, NBC, Katie and CBS Radio.
Oct 15 2020 · 55mins

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#99 - Jonathon Aslay On Losing A Child, Loving Yourself, And Better Dating Strategies

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Waddup Psychos! Today we have author and dating coach Jonathon Aslay (@jonathonaslay) to talk about:

*How losing his 19 year old son inspired him to write his book "What The Heck Is Self Love Anyway"

*How to talk to a grieving parent

*Ways to love yourself

*Figuring out your attachment style

and a whole lot of other great sh*t!

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Jun 17 2020 · 59mins
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169: Love Yourself From the Inside Out (interview with Jonathon Aslay)

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Today I'm speaking with Jonathon Aslay, a self-love advocate, speaker, blogger, and published author. We discuss dating, self-worth, emotional maturity, loving yourself from the inside out, and more.   Jonathon is the author of What The Heck Is Self-Love Anyway, founder of Mid-Life Love Mastery, and a successful dating coach that specializes in mid-life and purposeful dating - but his mission has gone through a makeover.   After losing his 19-year-old son Connor in 2018, Jonathon Aslay was forced to acknowledge what he's suspected all along: that dating strategies are often too one-dimensional to have a meaningful impact. Instead, it's the act of dating itself that brings out what he feels is the number one emotional health issue facing singles today: a soul-deep lack of self worth and self love.    Today, with his new book, "What The Heck Is Self Love Anyway?" and his Mid-Life Love Mastery mentorship program, Jonathon is on a mission to encourage both men and women to adopt a daily practice of self help, personal development, and spirituality, so that they may find true inner happiness, purpose, and peace. With these practices, individuals will attract the relationship of their dreams - and Jonathon is here to help along the way.   Check out Jonathon's book here: www.jonathonaslay.com/love   Find him on - Instagram: @jonathonaslay Facebook: @consciouscoupling.jonathonaslay  Twitter: https://twitter.com/jonathonaslay Podcast: What Would Love Do? Website: http://www.jonathonaslay.com/ YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCDOXs_34FF93o66Z-S0py1g   Enjoy this exciting conversation!   Please do me a favor and take a minute to rate and review the show on your podcast app and/or screenshot this episode and share it on social media - be sure to tag me @sausha.davis or @saushadavispodcast   For more resources and ways to work with me, visit my website saushadavis.com or send me a message on social @sausha.davis Don't forget to book your FREE strategy call with me in June! Spaces are limited so be sure to sign up today to claim your spot. I want to get on the phone with you and help you solve any problems or challenges you may be facing in your life and business. Go to saushadavis.com/strategysession or message me on Instagram @sausha.davis to book your FREE call!

Jun 11 2020 · 52mins
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Jonathon Aslay- What The Heck Is Self Love Anyway?- Ep. 74

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Jonathon Aslay is one of America's leading mid-life dating coaches. His view of life changed and expanded in 2018 with the passing of his 18-year-old son, Connor. 

Jonathon's grief led him on a soul-searching inner journey which opened him to the most common emotional health issue faced by people- a lack of self-love, self-regard, and self-worth. Jonathon takes this new understanding with him into his work with people who are dating in mid-life.

In this interview, Jonathon and I discuss how his relationship with Connor has continued and how Jonathon has grown through the difficulties in his life. It's rare that I get to talk to a father who is in this position.

You can find Jonathon at www.jonathonaslay.com

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May 26 2020 · 1hr 10mins
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#204 Jonathon Aslay - Using Gratitude as Your Pathway

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Today, Lance is joined by Jonathon Aslay, one of America’s leading mid-life dating & relationship coaches, defender & protector of women’s hearts & author of Amazon’s #1 new release, “What The Heck Is Self-Love Anyway?” After losing his 19 year old son in 2018, Jonathon decided that he was going to deal with his grief through love. Lance & Jonathon chat about how we’re living in a “swipe culture” due to dating apps. Ultimately, as you will hear, Jonathon believes that no matter if you’ve been swiped left or swiped right, be grateful. Be sure to listen to the end to hear the secrets on what women really want!


Jonathon answers with, “Just keep moving forward.  Everything is going to be ok.”


  • [00:05:26] Has COVID-19 Affected Jonathon?
  • [00:10:37] How Did Jonathon Create Hope Again?
  • [00:26:27] What Do Women Want?
  • [00:36:15] The #1 Emotional Health Issue
  • [00:38:32] What Are Men Doing Wrong?

Connect with Jonathon Aslay:

1. Follow Jonathon on Facebook, LinkedIn, Twitter & Instagram

2. Find Jonathon on his website

3. Subscribe to Jonathon’s YouTube Channel

4. Listen to Jonathon’s podcast “The What Would Love Do?” .  Specifically Episode 6:  “5 Signs of Emotional Maturity”

5. Purchase your very own copies of “What The Heck Is Self-Love Anyway?” & “Understand Men Now: The Relationships Men Commit To And Why”

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May 25 2020 · 53mins
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Ep114 Self Love with Jonathon Aslay

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Zach finally put the doors on his shed.Both he and Laura showered today, but for different reasons. They move on to discuss self love and self care with mid-life dating and relationship coach, Jonathan Aslay

If you're looking for help try Better Help today by visiting https://trybetterhelp.com/mtr 

May 19 2020 · 43mins
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149 | Understand Men Now with Jonathon Aslay | April 14, 2020

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America's Leading Mid-Life Dating Coach has expanded into a deeper, essential philosophy of what it truly means to LOVE. Datin​g & Relating with Self-Love. Learn more with dating expert, Jonathon Aslay.
Apr 18 2020 · 55mins
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216: What The Heck Is Self Love Anyway? - With Jonathon Aslay

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In today's episode of the Personal Development Without The Fluff podcast, we're happy to bring you a great talk with Jonathon Aslay, entrepreneur, coach and author of the book What The Heck Is Self-Love Anyway around self-love, grief and personal development. 

It's easy to fall into the habit of looking for outside events or validation to feel good about ourselves.

We look for validation in partners or achievements, but do those relationships or events really ever last?

On the other hand, one might even ask: 'isn't it selfish to love yourself?'

A lot of people are stuck and not feeling good enough about themselves.

Sometimes it can even feel hopeless, but is there something we can do about it?

In today's podcast, we dig deep into the subject of self-love with Jonathon Aslay who went through a painful life event that turned his world upside down.

This tragic event would force him to look within and he wrote a book about it.

He believes that self-love really is not that weird. It’s about addressing our self-worth, our self-esteem, self-confidence and self-reliance.

"A lot of people choose busy to avoid leaning into their feelings and escaping the opportunity to do the work" - Jonathon Aslay


Get More Free Information From Jonathan Aslay at http://www.jonathonaslay.com

What The Heck Is Self Love Anyways? - In This Podcast:

  • How To Deal With The Grief Losing A Child
  • Powerful Techniques You Can Use To Cultivate Self Love
  • Why The Outcome Doesn't Determine Your Self Worth
  • What Happens When You Give To Others Without Giving To Yourself
  • and much more...

“Self-love is like the oxygen of love that you give yourself first because it's difficult help others without it” - Jonathon Aslay

Learn More About Jonathon Aslay

Known as America’s Leading Midlife Dating & Relationship Coach, Jonathon Aslay is a defender and protector of women’s hearts around the world. He helps women transform from attracting Mr. Wrong into finding their Mr. Right.

Jonathon, a successful entrepreneur, coach, speaker, and author of Amazon #1 New Release: What The Heck Is Self-Love Anyway?

Jonathon is like A GUY SPY to the male mind who truly understands the way a single or divorced man thinks and acts. He’s a master at helping women recognize and distinguish the difference between men who are emotionally unavailable from those who are truly ready for love.

Find out more about Jonathon’s great work here: http://www.jonathonaslay.com/

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Apr 14 2020 · 54mins
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Ep. 124. 5 Ways To Show Greater Self Compassion - Guest Jonathon Aslay

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In a world focused on perfection, those of us who are flawed really have it rough!  Unfortunately none of us are going to reach a state of perfection while in this life, so it makes sense that we are going to need to learn to be a bit kinder to ourselves when we make mistakes .  

This weeks guest is Jonathan Aslay, author of the book "What the Heck is Self Love Anyway ."  Jonathan teaches us 5 ways that we can start implementing a bit more kindness toward ourselves...even when we are flawed.

We hope you enjoy this episode!

Mar 10 2020 · 53mins